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Utero Bonding and How That Governs Behavior
By, Raymond W. Brandt, Ph.D., Ed.D. Founder Twinless Twins Support Group International

There is nothing a twin does or does not do which controls the intensity of utero bonding. Through regressive hypnosis therapy, that bonding begins to appear by 8 weeks, or the first discernment at eight to twelve weeks. After that clinical ultrasounds reveal in-uterine activity becoming increasingly tactile, touching, hugging, pushing. There is no doubt in my mind that incipient, intrinsic, and associative to womb, placental sharing is an increasing womb weaving of the multiples. The twins become more snug and sharing everything is a daily life development accommodating each other in great love and giving to each other.

When born, twins have become 'one entity' and know no other way of living on. Twins from stillbirth, immediate separation by medical needs, or adoptions exhibit the same frustrations and loneliness which later twin death causes. The difference being infant twinless are unable to articulate their loss. They find body semantics through behavior to evidence their great need for nurturing through their devastating dilemmas.

Utero bonding continues in the crib, mothers lap, playground, shared bedroom, -- each and every activity the twins perform as one. Innate to all twins, identical and fraternal, is a great need for close companionship. Parents have experienced this when they each took one twin to different activities. Each twin becomes fussy, crying, seeking their twin. As a single fetus develops independence so twins develop inter-dependence. Each is not whole without the other and it is this very weaving interface which governs and dictates their behavior throughout their entire life cycle: conception to death of both. The emphasis is on both for so long as one twin does live the bond is not broken and continues its phenomena in the twinless one.

 


    
 
 
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